The
D'Agnolo Family |
Home
Family
Tree
Names
Mourning
Recipes
Italian
Language
Pictures
Works Cited |
k I have been asked many times by foreigners in the United States, smiling like we have something unique in common, “What country are you from?” Each time I’m caught off guard, but answer that I’m from the United States. However, my accent gives it away on the first word, and the smile usually dims before I finish. I usually add though that the curly hair is the result of my Italian ancestry. That can sometimes bring back the smile, and they respond, “I thought so.” I can thank my mom and her ancestors for the genealogy that resulted in the anomaly I have for hair. She knows my strife as well as many of my aunts, uncles and cousins. Strife might be too strong of a word, however. I’m actually quite enamored with my Italian side (and have learned to work with my hair). I have always loved my mom’s maiden name. D’Agnolo. It just sounds beautiful in a roll-off-the-tongue kind of way. My actual last name, Swank, represents my other side, the German side. However, I’m a little biased since my dad’s side is almost non-existent and does not speak to us due to personal reasons, hence the reason I’ll be focusing on my mom’s side. My mom’s side held all the customs, traditions, and family that I grew up with and as a result all of my attention. My dad is amazing; his family just has heavy history and family problems.
History
is also difficult to track on my mom’s side. It’s not something the
family
talks about very often. The tradition in Italy, according to my uncle
Brian,
was to keep things within the family and not talk to outsiders.
However, as the
children of the original immigrants, my great grandparents, became more
Americanized they moved outside of the family circle and lost a lot of
that
history and communication. I’m also guessing it is because it was a
difficult
adjustment to life in America for my great grandparents and as a result
their
children, including Louis, my grandpa, or Nonu as we call him.
According
to my Nonu, his parents were born in 1901. His father, Ottorino (Otto)
D’Agnolo, was born specifically on January 26, 1901, according to his obituary. The
birth date of my
great grandmother, originally Josephine Penzi, is the same as my own,
but 86 years ealier on November 19 (Celeste). The
town they
grew up in “was a
very small rural town in the foot hills of the Italian alps, mostly farming* and
existing,” and they “eventually grew up next door to each other.” The
town was Fanna in the northeastern
part of Italy (Brian). *This link is a YouTube
video of a farm in Italy. My uncle Brian,
explained it a little further. In Italy, my family did tile and
terrazzo work
(bigger versions of mosaics with marble on the floor in decorative
designs)
as well as some farming. This is particularly important to my family
because
the trade of brick laying or tile has been passed down from generation
to generation. My great
grandfather learned it, then taught it to his family including Louis,
who then
taught it to his family, including his daughter’s boyfriend, who is now
my dad.
The streets aren’t gold, but there are a lot of beautiful floors out
there as a
result of my family. Back to the story line, my great grandfather came
to
America with contacts in Detroit, but it is said that he decided to go
to
Rockford, Ill., to avoid the mafia in big cities like Chicago. It is
also said
that some of my family members had done tile and terrazzo work for the
mafia
and
were paid in large cash sums. It was after some success in this
business that
Otto was then able to bring his family over and continue it here in
America.
|